I found this in my archive and strongly felt it's worth sharing again, I believe it will be beneficial to you or someone if you can be a little patient to read through.
Marriage is for matured men and women who have clear sense of direction not for
boys and girls.
Marriage is between a man and a woman; God created Adam and Eve not Adam & Steve, neither is it between Ada and Eve. I wonder the perversion that has pervaded our world today.
Young man stop looking for a wife when you have not discovered God's purpose for your life because your purpose determines who you marry. You have no business looking for a spouse when you don't know where you are going else you will be like a blind man who does not where he is going yet he's carrying somebody along.
Young woman, before you consider that young man dancing around you for obvious reasons, make sure he is a GENUINE LOVER of CHRIST, he has clear direction about his own life and that you can see yourself effectively featuring in his assignment and being the true help-meet you were created to be.
Make sure you you know the truth in the Word and that you two agree and believe in so many principles in the Bible, the reason why you have to know the Word of God for yourself so that nobody can come and form "Mr Fake Bible Concordance" for you (John 8:32).
If he does not agree on biblical principles of righteousness and holiness, Sexual purity, giving, faith, soul winning, fear of God, humility, etc, you have no business with him and vice versa.
Ladies, your beauty may endear you to a man but sound character and good attitude will keep you in the relationship. Attitude is like a flat tyre, you cannot go further or move with speed until you change it. The reason why many people you know keep jumping from one relationship to the other is because they lack the right attitude to keep a relationship.
You know those attitudinal issues you have, subject yourself to the Holy Spirit to help you and make conscious effort to work on them. Marriage is a wonderful institution ordained by God so you need His help in your relationship.
You also have to make conscious effort you are of good behaviour in the relationship, love, understand, respect, honour and trust your partner.
Conclusively, make 1 Corithians 13:1-8 (AMP) your manual for your relationship. Know what the standard of love is and its attributes, this knowledge
God bless you
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